A spouse who refuses to cultivate or fan physical intimacy first devalued the marriage in their mind and priorities. Spouses who defile their marriage bed first lost honor for their marriage. Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
…for I look upon the Frasers to be about as unhappy as most other married people. Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
(Can human beings change? The humor, and the sadness, of remarriage comedies can be said to result from the fact that we have no good answer to that question.) Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
If you behave in a manner that poisons your relationship, don’t be surprised when it dies. Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
...[A] certain degree of un-understanding (not mis-, but un-) is the only possible sanctuary which one human being can offer to another in the midst of the devastating intimacy of a happy marriage. Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
There is no such thing as escape after all, only an exchange of one set of difficulties for another. It wasn't Mark or the farm or marriage I was trying to shake loose from but my own imperfect self, and even if I kept moving, she would dog me all the way around the world, forever. Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
My parents have been married forty-two years. I wonder how many of those were happy. Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
The proper basis for marriage is mutual misunderstanding. The happiness of a married man depends on the people he has not married. One should always be in love - that's the reason one should never marry. Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
If [God] send me no husband, for the which blessing I am at him upon my knees every morning and evening ... Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
He was persuaded he could know no happiness but in the society of one with whom he could for ever indulge the melancholy that had taken possession of his soul. Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>
Take one cup of love, two cups of loyalty, three cups of forgiveness, four quarts of faith and one barrel of laughter. Take love and loyalty and mix them thoroughly with faith; blend with tenderness, kindness and understanding. Add friendship and hope. Sprinkle abundantly with laughter. Bake it with sunshine. Wrap it regularly with lots of hugs. Serve generous helpings daily. Nov 24, 2024 - Fabian Biese>